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… в Мир в женском образе. Автор: Annie Clarke
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Адаптированный перевод Натальи Dreamery и Сони S.

Почти все кроссдрессеры начинают переодеваться дома в обстановке полной секретности. Многим этого вполне достаточно, но иные осмеливаются избрать другой путь — показать и проверить себя так сказать — на людях. Первая прогулка может оставить просто ужасающее впечатление, но то чувство, которое Вы испытываете, оказавшись на улице, просто незабываемо. Вы получаете необыкновенные ощущения и опыт , и когда Вы это испытаете на себе, с этим мало что может сравниться!

Основы.

Если первые ощущения от ваших переодеваний дома Вы расцениваете — «неплохо», то Ваши ощущения на улице будут не сравнимы ни с чем другим. Первый успешный выход на улицу придаст Вам уверенности, и вы захотите повторить это еще и еще. Для Вас откроется совершенно другой великолепный мир. Чтобы все это почувствовать, необходимо, чтобы Ваша прогулка имела определеннуо продолжительность (если Вы только высуните нос из подъезда и сразу вернетесь обратно, то толку не будет). Чтобы Ваша мечта не превратилась в кошмар, Вы должны чувствовать себя достаточно уверенной и излишне не нервничать на улице. Поэтому вот Вам первый совет:

1. Тщательно спланируйте свой маршрут. Каким образом Вы будете выходить из дома и как будуте туда возвращаться (чтобы,например, не вызывать подозрения досужих старушек на лавочке перед подъездом)

Выход днем…

Начинающие кроссдрессеры часто делают ошибку , выбирая места с малым колличеством людей, в то время, как фактически , это небезопасно. Меньше вероятность обратить на себя внимание на людной улице, посещая магазины, чем в тихом парке, где матери с детьми могли бы неправильно истолковать ваше появление.

Если ваш первый выход планируется днем, будет лучше, если Вы отправитесь в центр города,выбирете для прогулки более респектабельные районы. Лучше находиться среди людей вменяемых,даже если они будут тыкать в Вас пальцем, сочтя Ваш внешний вид предосудительными. Избегайте районов, которые часто изобилуют группами скучающих подростков, явно мающихся от безделья или осознанно ищущих кого-то, чтобы почесать кулаки. Стоит хорошо продумать детали Вашей прогулки, собираясь гулять далеко дома, прежде, чем Вы выйдете за порог. С поездкой на машине стоит повременить. Вы же не хотите попасть в ДТП из-за того, что с непривычки волнуетесь ,и ведете машину ,как впервые севший за руль человек? Да и привыкли Вы к другой одежде, прическе и обуви. Остается такое средство передвижения как автобусы, троллейбусы, метро и поезда. Поездка может добавить напряжения. Если Вы должны идти пешком, то будьте готовы к капризам природы. 20 минут под дождем не выдержит ни ваш парик, ни косметика.

Если Вы не горите желанием разговаривать с кассирами, в некоторых случаях Вы с успехом можете приобрести билет, Интернет-карточку, банку воды в автомате. К сожалению ,автоматы В России и СНГ еще слабо распространены. Хотя, в любом случае, Вы не будете первым трансвеститом, который приобретает что-либо в этой кассе, в этом магазине, палатке и т.д. Понятное дело, я говорю о сравнительно больших городах. Если вы живете в поселке с населением меньше 100 тыс. человек, то вероятность столкнуться нос к носу с кем-то из знакомых ,довольно велика. В этом случае, видимо, придется ждать более подходящего времени и условий.

… Или после наступления темноты

Некоторые трансвеститы, которых я знаю, любят передвигаться на автомобилях, но это только кажется расширением границ спальни. Если Вы выходите за пределы квартиры, Вы хотите нечто большего, больших возможностей и большей свободы действия. Но решите, чего хотите именно Вы? Независимо от того, что Вы делаете, не стоит поражать окрестные улицы прогулкой в районе половины второго ночи. Это может быть очень заманчиво, но в действительности, — это самый глупый план из всех. Если Вы выглядите достаточно убедительно как женщина, то милицейский патруль скорее всего задастся вопросом, что женщина одна делает на улице в это время? В Москве это самый надежный шанс нарваться на проверку документов. А если у Вас еще и документов нет и Вас не распознают , то вероятно можете получить совершенно неожиданный опыт. В том числе связанный с сексуальными домогательствами, нечистых на руку (и все остальное), сотрудников милиции.

В развитых странах возможностей для встреч больше. Существуют различные группы взаимоподдержки трансвеститов. Это и разные пабы, бары, клубы. Если Вы живете на 1/6 части суши, то Вам, скорее всего, такая вольница не светит. Наши встречи остаются, в основном ,виртуальными. Однако, в большинстве больших городов даже здесь, в настоящее время, появляется все больше мест вроде веселых пабов или клубов, где Вы можете себя чувствовать «в своей тарелке». Хорошей идеей будет предварительное посещение места, куда Вы потом придете в женском образе. И пусть у Вас все получится!

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Crossdressing is the act of blurring the aesthetic gender lines by wearing clothing traditionally worn by the opposite sex. Men can dress to look like women, while women can dress like men. This may be done by people who enjoy cross-dressing periodically as well as those who choose to adopt an identity as the other gender. It can also be handy for people such as actors who may be called upon to play another gender in a role. While there is no right or wrong way to crossdress, this article can be used as a guide through the complicated process of switching your gender through the garments you choose to wear.

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Pick a role model. Successfully pulling off a male-to-female gender transformation will depend on picking a feminine body type to emulate. Women all have feminine curves, but differ in how it is presented. A petite gymnast will be different than a voluptuous vamp, which will also be completely different than a sweet little old lady.
- When picking a role model to emulate, it is easier to pick a feminine figure who has the same general body type as you.
  - Marilyn Monroe, for example, is a good example of a woman with an hourglass figure, not particularly thin, and medium height.
  - Portraying Brienne of Tarth on Game of Thrones can use a more muscular build.
  - Of course, accuracy may not be the point. If dressing for comedic effect, feel free to go for the exact opposite. An example would be putting a large muscular man in a fairy costume.
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Contour your face. Your facial features say a lot about your gender, and there are measurable physical differences between the two. You will want to imply higher cheekbones and a smaller chin, and of course, you will want to shave very closely.^[1]
- As women throughout the ages have discovered, the right kind of contouring makeup can create an entirely different facial look. You can create illusions that make features looks smaller or more pronounced and you can even draw focus to certain feminine or masculine traits.
- Feminine face: To get those higher cheekbones, larger eyes, smaller noses, and bigger lips that are strong gender cues, use contouring powder and highlighter.
- Add makeup to mask or modify your features to appear more feminine. Apply false lashes, mascara, blush, eyeshadow, eyeliner and lipstick to create the ultimate feminine look.
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Accentuate your bust. Entire industries, from garments to cosmetic surgery to publishing empires, have been built on the foundation of our association with breasts and femininity. For convincing cross dressing, this will help bring you where you want to be, both physically and emotionally.
- One way to do this is to purchase a bra and stuff it with either tissue paper or socks. If you’re not interested in showing cleavage, this will work well. If you want cleavage as well as natural-looking bounce, weight, feel, and movement, you can purchase a breast form^[2], which is a prosthesis you wear inside the bra or attached to your body.
- If you’re going for a natural look, avoid exaggerating the size of your breasts—make them proportional to your body size, or even a little smaller. Too much bust actually detracts from a natural appearance.
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Draw in the waist. The contrast between the waistline and hips promotes a feminine look.^[3] While some styles downplay this look (such as flapper dresses) drawing attention to a smaller waistline helps the overall effect.
- Waist-cinching undergarments or corsets can help to achieve a more hourglass figure. You can also add padded panties, or silicone butt pads to bump the badonkadonk.
- Tuck and tape the boys. While there is expensive underwear that can disappear your package faster than a fly-by-night delivery service, you an also do this easily and cheaply with a pair of panty hose and some tape (medical tape, not duct tape—please, for your own sake!)^[4] Visit this wikiHow article on How to Tuck and Tape for more information.
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Do your hair up. While you can grow out your hair to naturally get the look of the opposite sex, you can also take advantage of wigs to create that look temporarily, and try out different looks and colors to find one that suits you. Look online at celebrities to find the right hairdo for your new features.
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Dress the part. Get the right fit by trying on your clothes that match your figure. You don’t want to buy a dress only to find out it doesn’t fit with your new cleavage. Take your measurements to determine your needs:
- Your chest is measured with the tape snug under your arms and above the cups of your bra.
- Measure your bust across the fullest part of your bra cups. Don’t pull the tape too tight—you don’t want to squish things down unnaturally here.
- Measure your waist at the narrowest part, between the top of the hipbone and the bottom of your rib cage.
- Your hips are measured at the largest part of your butt and hips.
- A rule of thumb when buying a dress is to use the largest of the measurements for your dress size.
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Pay attention to the smaller details. It’s more than just how a man dresses or a woman does her make up that makes them identifiable with that gender. There are dozens of little differences, red flags that signal that you are a cross dresser. If you are looking for the obvious cross-dressing look, you can skip past these tips. If you want to look like a woman down to the smallest details, read on!
- Exposed body hair: Men and women expose body hair differently. Waxing, using pantyhose or shaving can turn a man into a more realistic woman. Eyebrows are key as well, and sculpted eyebrows will go a long way towards a convincing look. It will also be one of the more noticeable features when you’re not cross-dressed, which might be a concern.
- Nails: This is an obvious, but a sometimes overlooked detail. Give yourself a manicure to achieve the look you want.
- Accessories: Belts, necklaces and earrings aren’t unisex. Keep your accessory shopping to the women’s departments.
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Get the attitude. Being a cross dresser may be all about the aesthetics to you. If so, the following tips may not mean much. But if you want to pull off the entire gender persona, its important to have the right act down.
- Develop the personality. In reality, women have all sorts of behavior patterns—but certain ones are emphasized in females. Women are taught to be less aggressive, for example. They are also allowed to be more emotional than male counterparts.
- For example, a woman would be more likely at a restaurant to say, «I would like a salad, please,» instead of «I want the salad.»
- Women tend to show more emotion. Men are generally taught to avoid a lot of visible emotion, while a woman tends to be allowed to.
- Alter your voice. For starters, you can bring the pitch of your voice up higher to convey a feminine voice. It’s also important to also adopt the vocabulary associated with the fairer sex. Note that speaking in a falsetto voice will not be convincing for long. Learn to speak in a softer, more sing-song way, varying your pitch and volume more than you do when speaking as a man.
- Walk the walk. Men and women often walk differently,^[5] and a lot of it is taught by culture. Your movement is ingrained, and you’ve learned to «walk like a man» since you were a boy. Women have to learn to walk in a feminine way, which emphasizes grace rather than power. As a man, you have to switch gears.
- Practice walking in heels. Nothing looks less feminine than tottering on high heels. Even if you do not go out in public in heels high heels teach balance, smaller stride, walking softly, and a feminine gait. Practice going up and down stairs especially. Being fully proficient with heels means being able to not only walk, but dance in this type of footwear.
- Women often walk faster and use their arms more, so try picking up the pace, and engaging your arms. Arms are soft, not hard and stiff.
- As the song says, «hips don’t lie,» so sway your hips subtly, but don’t do it to the point of exaggeration.
- Be careful to walk with gentleness. Men are allowed to clomp down the hall and pound downstairs in a way that women are not. Women are taught to walk more carefully with a grace. Walk up and down stairs with a skirt, and keep in mind a woman cannot bring her knees up very high.
Note: As with all things in cross-dressing, over- exaggeration will not make you look more feminine, it will just make you look more like a guy wearing a dress.

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Find a role model. Find a male archetype or two to get your cues from. Using archetypes will help you with style cues, movement, attitude, and that all-important swagger.
- Choose guys with features that are roughly similar to yours, or you’ll have a hard time making the switch convincing.
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Tuck in your breasts. Breasts are a giveaway if you’re trying to look like a man. If you want to be convincing, they have got to go undercover.

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- Usually this can be achieved by wearing form-reducing underclothes that can smooth out the look. A sports bra that is two sizes too small for you, or a control top made from a cut up pair of panty hose; can give you a flatter and smoother look.
Note: Binding too tight or for too long can cause serious health problems and/or trouble breathing.
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Flatten out the curves. Guys tend to have broader shoulders, and more of a straight line between the rib cage and hips—with narrower hips in general. The goal here is to add padding to both the shoulders and waist, and to visually de-emphasize the hips.
- Wear looser clothing to help de-emphasize curves, in general.
- Going to the gym can create a more masculine figure by targeting specific muscle groups. Build your chest, arms and legs to create more «bulk» on the body.
- Padding at the waist can be done to look realistic by adding bulk with extra fabric. There are prosthetic devices available as well. It doesn’t take much, just enough to reduce the appearance of wider hips.
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Contour your facial features. Women’s faces tend to be smaller and rounder, with less-prominent chins and noses. You can use makeup to help mask a feminine face, but it will be more about attitude than look, if you want to be convincing.
- Men have smaller lips, larger noses, bigger eyebrows, lower cheekbones and a more pronounced jawline. Use contouring powder to create heavier looking features.^[7] Don’t use any additional makeup to add color to the face. Adding «facial hair» can make a large difference in your look, but be cautious—it won’t stand up to close scrutiny. Consider adding a high-quality mustache or goatee for a more convincing look. Even men with naturally sparse facial hair can often grow those. Just don’t make it look like an overgrown bush, or it will look fake.
- Build the perfect package. If you think about a roll of quarters, you’ll have the average size about right—though you will want to adjust the proportions depending on your own physical attributes. However, while a roll of quarters might give you the right dimensions, but you will look like you’re permanently ready for action. Consider stuffing with a sock, or even considering a prosthetic penis. If you use a wool sock, you may inadvertently set yourself up for a typical guy cue: scratching the itch.
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Get a haircut. Short hair for all genders is perfectly fine in 21st-century culture, especially in locations where cross-dressing is acceptable, so there shouldn’t be a big issue with trimming your locks.
- If for whatever reason you want to keep your hair, use a short-haired wig.
Tip: Consider keeping enough length so that you can give your hair a soft look when you’re out of character, and then slick it up and back when you’re in character.
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Dress the part. Men’s jeans are a sure way to de-emphasize your female shape. By keeping it looser in the butt, you’ll also minimize recognition from behind. In general, a looser fit in your clothes will work to your advantage.^[8] However, if you want to look more sophisticated and tailored, make sure the clothes are cut to fit a man’s shape—then back-fill with padding and minimizing to achieve the right look.
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Pay attention to the smaller details. While first impressions go a long way to establishing your identity, a lasting impression will work only if you fine-tune the details.
- Exposed body hair. Let your leg and underarm hair grow naturally. With the exception of Olympic swimmers and competitive cyclists, guys don’t shave there.
- Trim your nails. This is an obvious but a sometimes-overlooked detail. Give yourself a manicure to achieve the look you want. Keeping your fingernails trimmed down so that a sliver of white shows will help. Don’t trim into the quick or you’ll look like a nervous wreck.
- Accessories: While lots of guys wear necklaces, bracelets, and earrings, most guys don’t. Since the goal is to avoid being taken for a woman, avoid such trappings. If you do decide to go with jewelry, shop in the men’s department.
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Be the man. If you want to pull off the entire gender persona, its important to have the right «act» down.
- Develop the personality. Think of what kind of man you want to be. Based on that, you may want to alter some of your basic personality traits. Try being more aggressive, and being direct when you want something instead of being nice. For example, to quench your thirst when dining out, say «Excuse me, we’d like some water here, please.» instead of «Hi! Yes, may I please have a glass of water? Thank you so much!» For a man, it’s not a question, even when framed as a question.
- Alter the voice. Bring down your voice to become more like a man. Also speak more like a man speaks—louder, more flat-toned, and more clipped. Guys also tend to slur their words, saying «I gotta have that car,» where a woman would more likely say «I must have those shoes!» It’s also important to adopt the vocabulary associated with the opposite sex. Nothing is ever «fabulous,» «adorable,» or «precious.» It also helps if you have a prominent Adam’s apple.
- Talking the talk? Now walk the walk. Slow it down. Men swing their arms less and walk slower, and keep their hips from swaying. Take longer strides, and exude confidence. Have a ‘I know where I’m going’ rather than a ‘time to check the map again’ attitude in the little things you do.
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Put it all together. Talk the talk, walk the walk, dress the part, play the role, and be the man!

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How can a girl dress like a boy?

Joanne Gruber is a Professional Stylist based in Los Angeles, California. She has worked in the fashion and style industries for over 10 years, specializing in educating people on the art of re-purposing existing clothing to freshen up a wardrobe. Joanne opened The Closet Stylist in 2007, a personal style service combining wardrobe editing with organization.

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Wear clothes that are oversized to go for a more androgynous or masculine look.
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It depends how »you» feel about it. Some cross-dressers just like dressing like the opposite gender for fun, or because it feels good to do it once in a while, but they do not want to be the opposite gender and like being the gender of birth. For others, it is the start or the expression of wanting to be a different gender. Just putting on the clothes does not mean you are declaring a gender.
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If I am very tall and have broad shoulders, do you think it is possible for me to pass for a woman?

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Try it out. Before you go about investing in a particular look, it’s best to try crossing dressing in smaller steps. For example, don’t go investing in an entire wardrobe of bras before you even decide if you feel comfortable wearing them—a lot of cross dressers don’t. Similarly, if you are a woman, try «padding» your underwear at home before you commit to wearing it for an entire night out, you could find it to be all too uncomfortable.
Get emotionally there. Cross dressing isn’t just about the look, it is about the emotions that you get switching between the «feminine» and «masculine» aesthetic. If you are having concerns or feel like you need more support, try looking online for cross dressing blogs or chat rooms. This could make all the difference in your confidence as a cross-dresser!
Ask a trusted friend of the opposite sex to help. They can give you tips that you might not have thought of.

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If you want to crossdress, first try altering your shape. For example, if you want to crossdress as a woman, try putting on a bra and stuffing it with tissue paper or socks to increase your chest size. Or, if you’re cross dressing as a man, you’ll probably want to put on a sports bra to flatten your chest. You should also wear clothes that fit the part, like a dress with a defined waistline for a woman’s role or a boxy, flannel shirt and loose jeans for a men’s role. When it comes to makeup, you can contour your face to make your features look more feminine. Alternatively, if you’re crossdressing as a man, try using makeup to give yourself bushy eyebrows and facial hair. To learn how to perfect your crossdressing attitude, read on!

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Кроссдрессер — кто это такие — советы начинающим кроссдрессерам

Многие из нас в детстве любили переодеваться в одежду братьев и сестер, но в некоторых случаях обычный интерес перерастает в страсть, которая с каждым годом становится все крепче. Стоит знать, как правильно самовыражаться в таком случае.

Кроссдрессер — кто это?

Желание человека носить одежду представителей противоположного пола называется кроссдрессингом. Многие при этом испытывают сексуальное возбуждение. Разбираясь в том, что значит кроссдрессер, стоит заметить, что это явление балансирует на грани моды и гендерных противоречий. Если женщины часто выбирают для своего образа детали мужского гардероба, например, джинсы бойфренды или рубашки, то женомужчины кроссдрессеры вызывают у большей части общества отвращение и их можно разделить на две категории:

Частичный. Сюда относятся метросексуалы, которые тщательно следят за собой, используют разные косметические средства, отращивают волосы и используют некоторые вещи женского гардероба.
Полный. К этой категории относят мужчин, которые полностью переодеваются в женщин и копируют их поведение. Еще их называют трансвеститами.

Советы начинающим кроссдрессерам

Многие мужчины, которые решаются на подобное перевоплощение, испытывают сомнения и страх, неприемлемого отношения со стороны общества. Как правильно составить образ, как стать кроссдрессером – советы, которые в такой ситуации будут очень полезны. Чтобы не стать объектом насмешек и сделать свой внешний вид максимально реалистичным и схожим с женщиной, необходимо отнестись к поставленной задаче со всей ответственностью.

Как стать кроссдрессером?

Мужчины, которые имеют опыт в этом деле, рекомендуют сначала пообщаться со знакомыми женщинами, чтобы получить от них советы по правильному перевоплощению. Реальные кроссдрессеры чувствуют себя мужчинами, просто испытывают страсть к одежде представительниц противоположного пола.

Распространенная ошибка – неправильный макияж. Наложение на свое лицо тонны грима, чтобы скрыть мужские черты, приводит к тому, что лицо больше похоже на маску и тем самым привлекает к себе внимание. Нельзя допускать резких перемен и лучше немного недоработать, чем перестараться.
Большое внимание необходимо уделить правильной походке и особенно на каблуках, а также другим женским повадкам. Благодаря этому образ будет смотреться целостным.

Кроссдрессер – создание образа

Мужчин во время перевоплощения могут столкнуться с некоторыми проблема, но они имеют простые решения. Есть секреты, как кроссдрессеры изменяют внешность:

Борьба с нежелательной растительностью. На теле мужчины есть места с обильным ростом волос, которых у женщин нет. В большей степени это касается бороды, и справиться здесь при помощи бритвы и толстого слоя тонального крема не получится. Выручит в такой ситуации депиляция.
Волосы. Секреты кроссдрессеров помогают сделать выбор между собственными волосами и париком. Обладателям густой шевелюры без залысин не стоит переживать и нужно просто отрастить необходимую длину. Если хочется покрасить волосы, то лучше выбирать естественные оттенки. Мужчины с редкими волосами или с плешью должны подобрать парик из натуральных волос, который создаст реалистичный образ.
Крупное телосложение. Кроссдрессер должен следить за своим внешним видом, поэтому придется избавиться от пивного животика и вернуться в форму. Важно понимать, что у мужчин от природы крупное тело и добиться изящных форм не получится, но это не повод расстраиваться, поскольку есть много «крупногабаритных» дам. Можно использовать разные женские секреты, например, шорты, увеличивающие объем ягодиц, корсет и бюстгальтер для создания объема груди.

Как одеваются кроссдрессеры?

Составить красивый женский образ – сложная задача и важно не переусердствовать в сочетании одежды и в выборе аксессуаров. Настоящие кроссдрессеры разбираются в моде, знают, как правильно компоновать вещи, чтобы образ получился целостным. Новичкам рекомендуется начать с женских брюк, а подходящей обувью является пара без каблуков, например, мокасины. Дополнит образ блузка, но только ее цвет должен быть неброским. Выбранная одежда подходят и для мужчин, и для женщин, что важно для правильного и комфортного перевоплощения.

Как найти социальные сети кроссдрессеров?

Новичкам очень сложно раскрыть себя обществу и тем более найти поддержку, но благодаря интернету очень легко выйти на контакт с людьми со схожим мышлением. В популярных социальных сетях есть специальные группы, а еще существуют разные форумы, где начинающим кроссдрессерам будет легко найти друзей, задать вопросы и получить необходимую информацию. Есть даже приватный сайт, где можно общаться, читать разные рассказы и блоги, и даже найти себе пару.

Литература про кроссдрессеров

Известно не так много произведений, которые бы затрагивали тему трансвеститов и людей с отличающимся мышлением. В жизни кроссдрессер может прочитать такие книги:

Е. Джеффри «Средний пол». В книге рассказывается история жизни гермафродита, который долго и мучительно осознает свое истинное «я». Повествование идет на фоне исторических, общественно-политических и социальных событий.
Р. Трахтенберг «Лифчик для героя». Идея этого произведение заключается в описании, как заканчивается жизнь одного мужчины и начинается его женский путь.
П. Маккейб «Завтрак на Плутоне». Это история о парне, который понимает, что он кроссдрессер. Его отвергает общество, но он не опускает руки и выживает благодаря собственному уму, остроумию и шарму.

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To me, crossdressing is a form of art, so we can practice and perfect it. Male crossdressers generally want to achieve a seamless feminine appearance. And of course, doing that involves hiding your “male parts”, in a process known as “tucking”. But how can crossdressers do that with efficiency without hurting themselves?

There are many techniques out there, with different difficulties and advantages. The most known methods are conventional tucking and concealing the area with loose clothes. But if you want to achieve the greatest level of effectiveness and realism, I recommend the use of fake vagina pants.

With so many options, crossdressers can be confused, or unable to choose. Each person might find one method that suits their needs and budget, making it something even more personal. So, with that in mind, I’ll explain each one of the methods, and point out what are the advantages and disadvantages that we can find.

1. Loose clothing

As I said, you can use loose clothes to try and hide your masculine shape. The goal here is to wear something that won’t possibly mark your crotch, letting the silhouette of your masculine parts be visible. It’s the very opposite of outlining your figure, but if you choose the right outfit, you can still keep some very feminine curves.

My main tip here is to loosen your bottom, around that specific part of your body that you want to conceal.

With that said, I want to reinforce: Avoid tight pants such as jeans and leggings!

What you are looking for are rounded dresses, t-shirts and rounded skirts.

Give preference to the larger ones, as rounded as possible. This way, you can still use something that outlines your top figure, while your bottom is concealed and feminized.

The main advantage here is that it’s a cheap method, involving only the choice of the right outfit for your body type. The disadvantage comes from the fact that it ends up limiting your options of clothing. Also, it wouldn’t hide a surprise erection at the wrong time (and this happens more often than you might think).

2. Tucking (Tape or Gaff)

Well, to simplify, tucking consists of hiding your male genitals between your legs, creating the illusion of the absence of a penis. There are two main methods that are quite different in terms of difficulty, comfort and price: Tucking with tape and tucking with a gaff. With that in mind, I’ll explain the differences between them.

2.1 Tape method

It consists in taping tour male parts in place, preventing its outline to show when you dress up. It seems easy, but there is a set of rules you must follow to avoid being hurt by this method. As it depends on the taping, you’ll be putting your well-being at risk if you do it wrong.

● Step 1: Shave all of your pubic hair

It’s very important to do that, since the tape will pull them off if you don’t, and it hurts a lot!. To shave with more efficiency, do that during a shower, and apply hair conditioner on the area you want to shave. Also, avoid rubbing the area with your towel, because it irritates your skin. Instead, use the towel to press the region repeatedly, yet gently, until it’s completely dry. To add a finishing touch, apply some baby powder.

● Step 2: Secure the head of your penis

After you shave, secure the head of your penis, to avoid harming it. It’s recommended to wrap it with toilet paper, but you can also use a piece of soft cloth or even specific pads for that.

● Step 3: Reposition your genitals

Start by pushing your testicles up, and fitting them inside your inguinal canal (An “empty” area above them). At the same time, pull your penis backward, between your legs. It will serve as a support for your testicles. Then, all you need to do is secure everything in place with your tape of choice.

Keep in mind that the type of tape is important! I like to recommend medical adhesives (which allows your genitals to “breath”) or blue kinesiology tapes.

Avoid strong duck tapes, such as the famous “silver tape”. They are very sticky and almost certainly going to hurt an area of your body as sensitive as this one.

After your crossdressing session is done, you’ll want to take off the tape, but stay calm. To remove the tape from your genitals with safety, soak the whole region with warm water. Then, gently peel off the tape to untuck. This method is very effective to hide your male parts, concealing the “volume” in your panties, but taping might make it difficult for you to pee.

2.2 Gaff method

A gaff is a piece of shapewear designed specifically for tucking. It compresses and smoothens the surface of your crotch, allowing you to wear tight-fitting clothes in a seamless and sexy way. It includes swimsuits and lingerie in general, but you’ll need to tuck first (even though it doesn’t require you to use tape).

If you follow the same safety procedures as the previous method, you won’t have any problem, but make sure to take good care of your gaff. To preserve your gaff for a longer time and keep it usable, give preference to cold water. You can hand-wash it, but if you prefer to use the washing machine instead, make sure to set the cycle to gentle. The use of a mesh washing bag is also recommended, but do not use any kind of bleach! Let it dry naturally, by dripping or flat-drying, and avoid using a dryer.

The main advantage of both tucking methods is that they are very effective and useful for feminizing your masculine features. It allows you to use tight-fitting outfits without getting clocked, greatly increasing your chances of passing. However, it comes with a few disadvantages. The tucking process takes some time to be mastered, making it a little difficult for beginners. It’s also not very beneficial to your health, and doing it wrong can hurt you.

Learn more>>11 Simple Ways to Tuck Without Tape – wikiHow

3. Fake vagina pants

This method uses a realistic pair of silicone pants resembling a female vagina. It’s more effective than a simple gaff because it recreates the exterior part of female genitalia while hiding your male parts. You can get separate pants that will only cover this region or complete bodysuits that can cover up your whole body. Some options have penetrable vaginas and urination pouches to make peeing easier.

Before you order one, you’ll need to take some measurements. Measure the circumference of your legs and the width of your hips and waist. Choose the model according to the measurements to ensure it fits your size.

3.1 Steps to wear fake vagina pants

Step 1: To wear the product, wash it first with water, and let it dry. I recommend you do this to make sure it’s clean and won’t cause any allergies or irritations in your skin. Apply baby powder inside and outside the pants to make it slip easier and reduce friction.

Step 2: Now, hold it open with both your hands, so you can fit your legs inside. Slip one of your legs inside, followed by the other one (one at a time).

Step 3: Pull it up and wear it like a normal pair of pants, until it reaches your hips. You may need to adjust its position to blend with your body, so it can create a seamless effect. If you choose one that includes a urination pouch kit, make sure to fit your genitals inside of it, in a way that you feel comfortable.

These silicone pants also require special care to be preserved. They are quite realistic and strong enough to be stretched, but be gentle to avoid tearing it apart. Wash it on a regular basis, but let it dry naturally. Avoid using a hair dryer or something similar because the heat can harm it!

3.2 How to care for your fake vagina pants

Make sure to store it properly as well, so you don’t risk deforming its shape. Carefully lay it flat in its original box since it’s easy and safe to be stored there. The box is discreet, and you can hide it with the rest of your cross-dressing stuff, so don’t worry. Keep the box closed to preserve your privacy and prevent dust from gathering.

The main advantage of this method is the realism it provides, as well as convenience and safety. It’s also quite fast, being able to feminize and fill up your crotch with simple steps. The only downside is the price, as it’s a bit more expensive than the previous methods.

As we can see, tucking increases the realism for crossdressers. It makes it even harder to distinguish them from cis women, as it hides one of the most defining features. The methods vary in terms of costs, efficiency and comfort, so it’s up to each crossdresser to decide which one suits their needs. Make sure you aren’t hurting yourself because crossdressing is supposed to be comfortable.

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Кроссдрессер — кто это такие — советы начинающим кроссдрессерам
Кроссдрессер — кто это?
Советы начинающим кроссдрессерам
Как стать кроссдрессером?
Кроссдрессер – создание образа
Как одеваются кроссдрессеры?
Как найти социальные сети кроссдрессеров?
Литература про кроссдрессеров
Кроссдрессинг и российская армия
Кто такие транс*персоны, дрэг-квин и кроссдрессеры? Разбираемся!

Кроссдрессер — кто это такие — советы начинающим кроссдрессерам

Кроссдрессер — кто это?

Частичный. Сюда относятся метросексуалы, которые тщательно следят за собой, используют разные косметические средства, отращивают волосы и используют некоторые вещи женского гардероба.
Полный. К этой категории относят мужчин, которые полностью переодеваются в женщин и копируют их поведение. Еще их называют трансвеститами.